Alright, so I’m going to open myself up for criticism on this, but I don’t really care. I met a guy on a site meant for hooking up (www.adultswithbenefits.com). It is one of those adult friend finder sort of sites meant for meeting people, which is what I wanted after breaking up with a boyfriend of 6 years.

So I did meet someone and he turned out to be in the exact same boat as me — long breakup, looking for something without commitment. Now, after about a month of it, I sorta like him. Odd question which I’m sure will make a lot of people thing I’m an idiot: How do I turn a random hookup situation into something more? Or do I even try? I figure I’ll just scare him away, but I’d like to be more than just "with benefits".
Oh, and please, no criticism. I know it sounds stupid of me. You can save those comments

I just want to experiment with other websites. I don’t just want to be on POF. I also hope to find a site where you can comment on someones photos.
Any suggestions would be great!
PS – I don’t want an adult friend finder kind of website, more of a dating/singles site.

I don’t want some senders like passion.com,Adult friend finder,to send me mails even not to spam

What chat room sites are good for meeting new friends straight, bi, gay in the Central FL area? I heard of gay.com, adam4adam. There is also a site called adult friend finder however it does not feature many people in the Central FL area.

I know a guy that will be married two yrs at the beginning of october .he and his wife have a toddler now.he met her on match.com.he never got off of match.com after her his marriage.he is still paying to use it.he is also on adult friend finder and on a site for married people to have an affair with other married people.why would someone get married and continue soon after the nuptuals to live the bachelor lifestyle.what was the point of getting married.?i mean he never stopped looking for women before his got married to her and i mean just after he married her.i can’t believe his wife hasn’t figured this out yet!what is this guys problem? is he another tiger woods?
even during her pregancy

I’ve been looking at a cat I’d love to adopt, he’s just over a year old and was found as a stray, according to his little page on pet finder and his name is Billie. Now, I think the cat would be perfect for me, but he could have a better name.

http://www.petfinder.com/petnote/displaypet.cgi?petid=3522253 this is the cat in question. I’ve been to where Feline Friends houses their adoptable cats before, and the ones I could pet were the sweetest and friendliest cats, so I have no problem believing when it says he’s a sweet and well behaved cat.
SO, is it possible to rename a cat? I’ve heard with dogs if you associate the new name with good things lie treats and affection they’ll respond to it within days or weeks, do the same principals apply to cats? Since he’s black, I’m partial to renaming him Ninja, but that’s subject to change if I see a good characteristic or another name just strikes me when I adopt him. If my application is accepted that is. I hope I can get him! <3<3<3

Thanks!

im a 19 year old girl and ive been gonig out with a 34 year old man for about 7 months. we both really like each other and ive met most of his friends so i know it’s not just a casual fling for sex… we met in october when i was 18 and after the second date i lost my virginity to him. looking back at it i feel sad because i wanted to lose it when i was in love. although now i think i love him it hurts me that it wasn’t special for him…. it was just a sha*.

the problem is that im worried about how genuine he is.when im out with him he constantly stares at other women which makes me feel like crap. i also went on his computer and he still has pictures (some of them explicit) of his ex girlfriends from years and years ago… i also found an msn conversation from 2008 with a girl asking her if she had removed their profile from "adult finder"… by this, im assuming that he means the website adultfriendfinder.com…..

what i want to ask you guys is what should i do? is it normal for guys to use the website to find a f***buddy? is it creepy? is it wrong? does it make him more prone to cheating on me? ive always thought that he was a sleazy guy deep down, and out for what he can get but he denies this and always makes me feel like a horrible person when i ask him about his past relationships and how many people he’s slept with. when i asked him this question he responded with 24 people, but it took him a while to spit the truth out, and even now i think he had probably reduced the number to make himself sound less promiscuous.

every time i think about this i cry. he’s my first proper boyfriend and i dont want to appear as the stupid young girl. i feel so alone because i cant ask my family (they dont know im going out with him and would go crazy if they found out) and i cant tell my friends because i dont want to burden them all the time with stories of my suspicions.

Please could you guys help……… xxxx

Hi I reeaally need help. On msn for months now, friends have been sending dirty ‘Adult Friends Finder’ links. It’s happened to almost everyone has got it now, nd I think i might have it…because I accidently clicked on a link called ‘Freegiftz.com’ :S
HELP PLZ!!

Everytime I click home on firefox, a new tab opens with the homepage while the one I’m on goes to either an advertisement or some random webpage. It will go away for a few days if I go into options and change my home page back to what I had it before (it’s getting automatically changed to have something like prizeoftheday.com added) What’s causing this, and how can I stop it? It’s getting pretty aggravating, especially since it sometimes goes to sites like Adult Friend Finder, and my younger sister uses my computer.

Right after we got married a little over 2 years ago, I found a secret email account that my husband had set up where he was getting hits from adult friend finder..He said he didn’t join to hookup, just looking at women. Later I discovered accidentially that he had a FaceBook acct and a MySpace Acct that he hadn’t told me about. He was chatting with an old (out of state) flame on FaceBook and I confronted him. Then a few months ago I found evidence that he was surfing Match.com and I left and took the laptop with me. He went out and bought himself another laptop (we also have 2 desktops). He carries it with him everywhere he goes in a backpack….to work, when he;s home he’s very careful to have it off since there’s a master password lock on it. When I confront him about it…..secrets, that kind of thing, he turns it around on me about not trusting, paranoia, yada, yada, yada……Why would he use a master pw and be so overly protective of his laptop is nothing was there to hide….as he says?? Am I making too big a deal out of this???? I’m very suspicious.